To a kindergarten teacher about a child with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder
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Hello, I have ADD/ADHD and I'm in your kindergarten now. Let's get to know each other!
I look like everyone else, and you wouldn't say that I have any peculiarities. However, ADHD is a reality that affects how I behave, how I react, and often how others treat me. I am a little different from my classmates in that I am more impulsive and will often do something without thinking about the consequences, I am more active and more inattentive. It's not because I don't make efforts, it's because of the way my brain works: it accelerates well and brakes poorly.
It is better to call ADHD a condition than a disease, and I would like to tell you about myself.
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As I said before, I look like everyone else, but inside me lives a sports car engine, and you can see that I move more than other children, much more.
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I will often do something without listening to the instruction to the end.
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I will play games without hearing the rules to the end.
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I will be a "driver" of disobedience for other children and a generator of all kinds of pranks.
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I will forget my toys and clothes.
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I am very cheerful and do not hold a grudge for long.
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I will change, but in kindergarten, I will still be very active, inattentive and impulsive!
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I also love movement and I love being in the centre of attention. Kindergarten should be fun, but to make it easier for you, I have some tips for you.
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To understand me better, remember following:
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speak to me very clearly and simply, looking me in the eye
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if the task is large, it is better not to wait until the end of the task, but to make sure that I am working in the process of completing it
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I get a lot of criticism because of my inattention, and it's very important for me to be praised!
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It's hard for me to control myself, so please remind me of the rules, the daily routine, and just simply remind me about everything!
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I don't just like to move a lot, I need to move a lot, so take care of my physical activity.
Help me develop:
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My parents may already the best way to give me assignments, ask them about this.
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It's very important for me to feel needed and effective: give me tasks and help me complete them. This should be just enough to give me a sense of independence.
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Encourage me more often than you criticize me: even for small things, it is very important to me!
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Never say in front of the whole group that I failed at something.
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Sometimes you will better understand what I want, tell me out loud, maybe I will understand, because sometimes actions do not keep up with thoughts.
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Sometimes I need to rest alone, away from unnecessary stimuli.
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How can you help me to get along with my classmates:
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Don't justify or blame me in front of other children, try to explain that everyone is different, and some people are different in speed and inattention.
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Include me in group tasks and games, and give me my own responsibilities and tasks, but watch to see if I can handle them.
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The way other children and parents will treat me depends largely on you. You are the authority and will be copied.
I want to be together with everyone and not think that I am different from others, and our kindergarten is the first place where I can be shown and taught this. The kindergarten is one of the first places where I will hear about myself from other adults and children, and it is important for me to know that I am accepted no matter what. If people believe in me, I'm ready to move mountains, but if they don't, I won't lift a finger.
So remember, believe in me, support me, and you will see that everything will be fine!